If you have considered going to a dating website to find yourself a wealthy man, consider this first:
Good looking men with money dont usually have a hard time finding women to date. As a result, they certainly arent going to need, much less pay someone to find a woman for them.
But there are also lots of millionaires who are busy making money and dont have the time or inclination to go looking for a date. It is much easier to page through the profiles of dozens of beautiful women and pick out the ones they like than to hang out in bars hoping to find a woman.
If youre lucky, youll meet one of those busy millionaires if you sign up at a millionaires only web dating service. If youre unlucky, youll end up with the wealthy men who cant get dates any other way.
Why cant a millionaire easily get a date?
If a wealthy man cant get a date its usually because there is something wrong with him, which is why he ends up at dating web site. But these online matchmakers also know something that no one likes to talk aboutthat a man with money will eventually get a woman no matter what his faults are, as long as she knows he has money. Which is why a dating website that advertises millionaire bachelors will always attract women, even if the guys are a bit flawed.
Be aware then, that a dating website catering to millionaires might have some or all of the following clientele:
Men who have physical, social or mental problems
Men who have trouble getting dates might have unappealing characteristicsYou have to ask yourself, How much am I willing to tolerate in order to be around wealth? Are you willing to date men who are:
If you have no moral issues with dating married men and think it doesnt matter as long as he is rich, you must be prepared to be a temporary toy in his life. The fun is over when:
You get tired of spending most of your time alone
You frequently have to drop any plans you had for a last minute rendezvous with him
Its not as exciting as you thought it would be
Life with a married man is not all fun and games. He is often not available, but he expects you to be ready and waiting when he does have time for you.
He plans on spending the holidays with his family and may not have time to get away to see you, but dont think of flying home to see your family. He wants you available just in case. Many a lonely night will be spend waiting just in case.
If you dont like it, just remember: his money, his rules.
Youre making a mistake if you believe hes going to leave his wife for you.
Married men who secretly date other women rarely leave their wives. If they were going to do it, they would have done it already, so they wouldnt have to sneak around. No matter how many times he tells you he loves you, and that you just have to be patient and give him some time, he isnt going to leave his wife. You will discover too late that there will never be a good time for him to leave her.
Wait, wait, wait. On and on the excuses will come.
Dont start with a married man and you wont have to regret ending it. Remember, the more of your youthful years you give to a married man, the fewer years remain to find someone that is yours.
Are you thinking that dating a rich man would be worth it, even if you eventually break up? You may have acquired a few expensive things, but you are older, have a reputation for dating married men and for being a gold digger, who is willing to put up with anything for money. I cant imagine any scenario where that is a good idea.
Unless he is putting thousands of dollars in an account for you to get yourself out of town and start over somewhere else, it is not worth the risk. You certainly arent going to easily find another rich man. Rich men dont usually like dating other rich mens discarded goods, especially women with negative reputations.
If you have the looks and the stomach for unusual men, you still have to deal with the fact that many of the men who sign up with dating websites and matchmaking services, may not be wealthy.
Remember the show, Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire? The lucky girl who won couldnt stomach the guy for even their short honeymoon. They slept in separate rooms and she annulled the marriage as soon as she got back to town. Apparently his million wasnt enough to entice her to stick around.
Even if the dating service claims to check out the background of the men who apply, IRS forms can be faked as well as bank statements and paychecks. In other words, there is no guarantee that he is who he says he is.
How much money makes a man wealthy?
Do you want a guy with a private jet who has homes in several countries, or will you settle for someone who
has a great job, a house and vacations in wonderful places? Do you want your jewelry from Tiffanys and Cartier or will diamonds from the local jeweler suffice?
For some women, a wealthy man is anyone who has a job and isnt asking her to pay for dinner. For others, their idea of a wealthy man is someone on the Forbes list of the wealthiest men in the world.
If this is you, you are not likely to find him through a dating website. That man meets women all the time without help.
If you think you can tolerate anything as long as a man has money, a dating service advertising millionaire match-ups might be an option for you.
However, your looks are important. Photos are used as introductions. You wont be picked out of a line up of eager faces because of your personality. Your looks are what you are selling.
If a dating service is not for you, youll need an alternative method of finding a millionaire. Looking for ideas on the internet about where to find wealthy men, youll discover such suggestions as meeting a rich man by borrowing a pedigree dog and walking it in wealthy neighborhoods. Silly idea.
After you spend a couple of days traversing up and down the street, the only thing youre likely to get is arrested. Either the neighbors are going to report a strange woman canvassing the street day after day, or theyre going to assume youre a hooker.
As much as youd like to believe it, wealthy men are not hanging out on the street waiting to meet women. They dont judge women by the dogs they walk, and they dont like women who pretend to be something they are not.
So how do you meet decent rich men? The simple answer is: go where they are.
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marry a millioner men,you feel secure about tomorrow.but must devoted to him.serve love and care the real feeling of love
Comment byElena Bazar November 11, 2011
i hate married men,everything stated here are for sure
Comment byprisca Elisius November 15, 2011
The problems listed are the same problems that women deal with trying to find a mate that is not rich. Personally, as a person that knows about hsv there are worst things to have to deal with. Men are men no matter what there wallets look like. Im not rich, but I would love to meet a rich man because at least I know his issues are not his financials and he cant blame bad behavior on it. Only snooty people do that to make themselves seem better than the rest of the world. Take away the money and their problems
are just as obvious as everyone elses. I just want
heart without financial strains as the excuse if
things dont work. I may not have the most
lavished job in the world, but I work and take
care of my disabled son and myself, by myself.
Its hard, but I sometimes I run into men who think because Im an independent I can take care of them. I dont have it like that. I know some rich men look at women the same way, but Im not a gold digger. I just want to be safe, happy, comfortable, and loved.
Rich man can be psychos and be mommys boys too. I married one. Are you willing to have so much mental stress that in the end you would feel like running? So I called quits. Get married to a decent earning guy who is less demanding.
Every girl dreams of growing up to marry have the fairytale wedding the wonderful husband with money nice house nice car an of course the money an the wonderful kids but in reality it dose not work like that to marry for money is wrong a man that loved me an showed it would be enough anything els would be a bonus Ive been a single Perent of a wonderful son all his life I dont have the best but in my eyes I have it all
Comment byDeborah Lindsay January 17, 2013
Hmmm deborah I would like to know more about you if you dont I would like you and I to know each other much better,
Hmmmm.Whatever happened to falling in love with a person regardless of their financial status? Very good things to read, but quite sad at the same time. Best wishes to those who crave that lifestyle versus the man behind the money (I know not all women are that way but more so than less).
Millions of people pass us by, thousands are watching us, hundreds of them are trying to look us in the eye, and dozens want to look info our souls, but very few have little chance to get info our heart. Good luck.
I met a rich guy and the sad part is I was tipsy and am single we spoke and later had sex,I regret the whole thing cause it was my first time sleeping with a guy in first day of meeting. Do I call him to apologise or just leave it?
You have already made your mistake and established what kind of girl you are. Calling him and apologizing will not change anything for him or you. You have given away the thing he wanted most and satisfied his desire. Why would he need to call you again unless it is for sex? You have no relationship. You are not friends. Sex is what connects you now. Do not contact him. Do not apologize. Forget regret and learn from this mistake. Then do it differently the next time. And remember, being tipsy is no excuse for bad judgement. Getting tipsy in the first place is bad judgement. Always be in control of your mind and your body. Good luck to you in finding a great partner.
Thank u for the infoi will definetely use it!
Thanks for the advice. My case is a lot more diffrent tho. All i want is someone who can help me in school at any university. I dont mind serving him in anyway i can. Even if it means leaving my country while doing so.
Rich dating is the way to go. If you are a man though be ready to face discrimination.
I feel as just because a man a millionaire doesnt mean he has everything in life, life comes more than just money material things power and desperation. Many rich men needs real love, understanding devotion,sacrifices, strong willed minded woman, strong backbone, honesty, loving and caring, someone who knows how to fight mentally when the hardship comes, someone who can pick you up when you fall and still be strong and be there through rich to poor and someone who is willing to help climb those mountains when he fall and continue to rebuild together Love is the true riches in life and family.. Me Im a single mom who dont have my mind set on someone else riches I feel Im already rich with out the fabs.. and money in my eyes my beautiful kids is my life and riches when I struggle I just know Im working hard for my family
i believe it wil be great for each person black or white to at least tast what it feels to be rich.
Comment byjustice ferkah August 27, 2014
I just turned 40dd last months. Ive dated a few millionaires. Two aaked me to marry them. I believe you only get married 1 time! I couldnt picture myself growing old happily with them. They were great men I just never felt that way. Your parrner should be your best friend!! Your should give & get 100%! U wont ever see me settling There is someone out there for each off us! A LOVE OFF A LIFETIME ❤
Comment byCarrie Ann December 18, 2014
Love to know more about different lives we live. It hard to find thee right 1.
Comment byStephanie McFarland January 28, 2015
Is it just about there money some really have a 1-way focus upon them and its the Money Not a Hapoy Life when thee Money come First. Most men might as well marry or have it as their mate.
Its sad to say. If I could Ever Find to have Hope of Recieving thee right Man in my Life And thee Right Woman in His Life.
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Comment byStephanie McFarland January 28, 2015
I have never taken part in anything like this. But I do fine it to be extremely intriguing
Comment byKarmen Hamburg April 15, 2015
MARRIED AGAIN FOR THE SECOND TIME AT THE RIPE AGE OF 56; MARRIED FOR SECURITY PURPOSES AN ADDITIONAL RETIREMENT INCOME FOR ME;I DONT LOVE HIM, ONLY RESPECT ULD HAVE BEEN A SINGLE PERSON THE REST OF MY LIFE AND I STILL FEEL THAT WAY;MISS THE EXCITEMENT OF MEETING A POSSIBLE WEALTHY PERSON WHO I CAN HAVE FUN WITH ETC, BECAUSE I AM A FUN LOVING PERSONIF I HAD TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAINI WOULD NOT HAVE TIED THE NOT; THERE IS NO FLAME THERE BECAUSE HE DOES NOT HAVE ANY MONEY TO HAVE FUN WITH..EVERYTHING WE DO IS CENTS, DIMES ETC.NOT EVEN ENOUGH TO GO TO THE MOVIES..WHAT A BORING LIFE FOR ME.MAYBE NEXT LIFE..LOVE TRAVELLING ETC.. BETTER TO JUST IMAGINE IT! DONT WANT TO BE THE REGULAR RETIRED BORING PERSON WHO CLEANS UP THEIR YARD AND SITS DOWN TO WATCH LIFE PASS THEIR WAY
I would prefer to meet a rich man simply because I dont have the ability to travel without the help from someone else with finances. I am also in a relationship that I have been in for a very long time and wouldnt have issues about starting a situation with someone else just for a good time. He cant take me to Europe or to Rio. He cant take me on plane rides or tell me to just drop everything and lets leave today for an unplanned vacation. Everyone needs that in life.
I am educated and am again in college to continue that education but I am tired of being the one to foot the bill.
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I can tolerate an hiv positve guy with money, as long as hes inteligent, respectful and caring and know how to take care of himself and the lady in his life. Im too matured to care about what people think, the reality is most times you cant enjoy each other to the fullest because we worry or fight about money. Ive been there its not cute!
First and foremost my name moca and I Im 53 130b caramel complected long black hair love walking swim dance painting cooking I love to cook just love life love living life to the fullest I give thanks to the Lord just looking for someone whos cool cum Collective down to earth basically just looking for my soul mate my companion my best friend my other half someone for me whos ready to settle down if the chemistry is there not looking for no one to take care of me cause what can a man do for me that I cant do for my self nothing ohh but wait it is something that a man can do for me be my better half its not all about no money in a relationship it about honestly trust loyalty understanding compassion for the for the relationship to stay strong and build a structure that is so extravagant
Im looking for someone who is physically challenged. I am ready to take care of him as long as he is super wealthy.
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