Finding love – because its not only about sex

Ever convinced anyone for sex by offering favors?

Do you feel insecure because your dick size? I do.

Koi to Bottom/crossdresser mera lauda muh me leke chuslo yaar bahut fdino sr chuswaya nhi ha koi haa kya mumbra / shil phata / mhape / ya ghansoli se

I m looking for a good shemale as my wife. if anyone is interested then please send me massage in my inbox

Jackriley : you are lucky. You should have married her. Indian society will take time to progress . But you must have certainly thought of making that decision. I want to know the process ,what all things went into consideration

Finding love – because its not only about sex

@charlie367, have you never seen a couple looking for just friends or threesome or group *** in pr and other gay related apps?

They are in the dating app again, because they either started relationship based on mere *** or physical attraction which tends to fade away with time or they want to spice up their relationship, which is just *** around.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

Back dates I use to travel from my company and I went Bangkok there I found this TS. She was awesome we live together for around a week and both liked each other after that I came back to India and again for 3-4 times due to company work I went there and we both were together. Once we thought of getting married and both of us were agreed also but there was one problem our Indian society. That would not accept us at all and there I have to live her. I miss her a lot

I m going to meet a shemale from.navi Mumbai, she is an escort but also looking for long-term relationship with it clicks n bond is developed.

Im from Mumbai and searching for a steady meaning full traditional with a person who stays alone preferably

Finding love – because its not only about sex

Finding Love is difficult but you need to stay committed, there would be ups and downs just like the normal straight couple, at time there would be urge for sexual desire, since gay relations is not so out to soceity, hence people start find options. I am happily commited with my partners for 5 years and we too had our ups and downs and fought for different views but at the end we need to adjust for each others. I am here on this site for friends around. Through my profile says it clear, I still get message, Do you have place, ASL and Blah and Blah. Well that not stops me for not coming on the gay dating site. Since I have found friends on GAY site who have become Friends are Families and thats what me and my partner have the same taught. Everyone has right to love and will get it someday or the other but one should never shop finding love!

Yeah sure add me also in group. I am top with big ***

Finding love – because its not only about sex

@a_wanderer : the argument doesnt make sense. If the straight guy judges the whole community because of one ***, he is at fault too.

Girls are harassed all the time by guys, doesnt mean they start judging all of the straight guys

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Finding love – because its not only about sex

@a_wanderer I am very big on consent and I sense and understand your frustration. But look at it this way. In every section of society there exists parts we dont like. Yes, sometimes you are going to get stereotyped because of it. The fact is that, thats not who you ARE.

I understand what you are saying and yes whilst we can make a case for it, we cannot judge and say these are the rules ACT this way or .. That would be arbitrary. Btw, laws of consent and laws for public *** do exist already…

I am cross dresser….fully male but with female mind n soul .. looking for a very serious CD lover who can give me life of a female n treat me as real female.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

No no….my question isnt abt what kind of relationship one should have….its their own matter… which should not anyones concern. Also it isnt my concern what someone does with his body. I have problems with that particular freaky behaviour of particular section of society which stains the whole community. What kind of impression of us, a straight guy would get when a random guy grabs his tool without his consent that too in jam-packed local? Next time when he will come across a genuine gay, still he will see this guy in a particular prejudiced manner. I am a gay but if someone does that without my consent, i will feel disgusted too. This is my concern. Some ppl just dont know where to stop. We are proud gays. And we are normal… Arent we? Then why such insane behaviour out of uncontrollable urge to have someone just because you are hory?

This is prob i am referring too. A straight guy who has witnessed such things, do you think that he would let his son to be gay(in a case)??

How anyone should behave and how many d*cks one should eat… is his own business. But that same guy should make sure that his self respect is intact as his behaviour does make everlasting impact on ones mind.

And i thing this is a social issue i am saying which should be discussed as it affects not just me and you but the whole community!!

@a_wanderer Thanks mate for clarifying and bringing this discussion to some actual real issues. No relationship can happen without TRUST. My polyamourous relationship and the ones I have seen work have worked because of it and the ones that dont are cause of lack of it.

Yes and I agree every individual is different so things work differently for them. Thats what I love about our community the sheer diversity. This is the point I wanted to bring out albeit poorly I suppose, if monogamous relationship is a choice thats great but if it is societal expectation then its wrong. Cause as you put it everyone is different.

This is exactly the same reason not to make it a Morality issue. Morality is subjective. Read up on inquisitions or witch hunts in History . Or put it more in context for us. You were a societal criminal not so very long ago this was a law put into place because of a subjective morality. What works for Peter doesnt work for Paul. And no one has any right to decide what kind of a relationship someone else should or shouldnt have . Its a choice. That my friend we both can agree on 🙂

Finding love – because its not only about sex

This is the earth with almost 7.7 billion ppl and i am damn sure there will be 7.7 billion different personalities. Everyone is different in his own way. So naturally….for everyone, things may work in different ways. In this case, here, some may prefer monogamous relationship, some polygamous…and its none of my concern. But i have seen many polygamous relationship which couldnt even lasted for even a month…with all members intact. Because here also….like every other relation, one thing which is more imp than anything else is trust!! If you guys dont have trust…. believe me…there cant be any s*x also, doesnt matter how h*rny are you(i am not talking abt s*x freaks here).

The reason i hate open relationships because i feel its just made up word for those who want to be one as a couple, but their urge for s*x is too high…so cant be satisfied with just a guy. How many such open relationships have you seen in straight world sir?(provided no one has any disabilities in when it comes to s*x) I bet the number will be in single digit. All i am saying is breaking someones trust again and again just for sake of lust is happening more oftenly here in gay world than the straight one. And only reason i could think of is that infamous urge.

I remember my bf telling me when i asked him why you behave like this. He replied with, i dont know what happens to me when i get h*orny, things just happen.

This is the urge i am talking abt. There maybe so many reasons for such kind of urge. Starting from rough childhood, society pressure, easy availability of s*x in gays… there are so many actually… but such behaviour isnt good for us, all the gays, as a brand. This is my point.

Btw… calling monogamous relationship as garbage is most insensible thing anyone can do on this platform. Having many fuxkbuddies doesnt make me progressionist nor having one guy for whole life makes me backward.

In my previous comment also, i meant no disrespect regarding to those who are into polygamous relationships. If it works for them…then why should i make a fuss abt that. But such polygamous relationships are mostly s*xual…and usually end because of lack of trust, nd misunderstandings. Same is in the every case. When you consider open relationship this factor of lacking trust nd having misunderstandings gets increased even more. So all i am saying if there is no trust, there isnt a relationship. And its more s*exual than love oriented.(this is my opinion btw)

Many will argue that s*x and love are two different things. But isnt having s*x with ur loved one only, can satisfy you the most? Accepting someone with all their positives and flaws and creating something beautiful out of it which lasts forever is what i think relationships are meant for.

Nowadays having *** is a fancy thing. Like smoking cigarettes considered as cool thing in 90s. But what is *** without love? When two souls touch each other, not bodies, when you get goosebumps, after you feel his warm breath on Ur neck, not after holding his tool, when you fall asleep instantly as you cuddle him in bed, not because of s*ucking too deep, I think this is love. Obiviously….the s*x is imp too. But this feeling one can have only when he or she is with their soulmate. Nd soulmate is Uno.

Forgive me for being too old-school… But this is what i had in mind when i started thinking of being with someone.

Sometimes i wish i should have born in 50s. It was beautiful back then. There may not be grindr or pr, but there was one thing which i cherish the most…… TRUST!!!

Ps- why shouldnt i make this as morality debate…if its affecting whole gay community? If we are not even ready to recognise there is a problem here, how are we gonna find solution to it huh?

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@mr_lonely_guy , why would you find matured couples on PR ? They are a couple , why would they be on a dating app ?

Finding love – because its not only about sex

@matureguy : I liked reading your incident with the Punjabi maalishwala. I think there are 2 reasons for his behaviour –

1) When people go thru money troubles the stress is high and then they look at the easiest way to get out of it. He wanted money more than anything else.

2) I also think these social classes exist for some reason while all.of us are good human beings its important to socialize within ones class and status. Even while fixing arranged marriages people look if both sides are of the same social standing. I think you should not have opened up so much to someone like a maalishwala to the extent he knows where you work. Its best to keep some parts of your life a secret.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

@CluelessHubby… I read your post I am with respect all of that thing that happened to you i can only say u must be a beautiful father.. but just because your parents doesnt speak anything about your sexual abuse it doesnt mean that I dont love you. Dont you remember when your child used to grab your finger and teach you how to work . Tinkerbell why they faster you is it really just for you will be the helping hand holding they r old , I dont think so ..they might go for and maid who will care for them when they r old ,but the got u , they give u all of the things u need to grow up, to make u established. Now u r saying u dont find love from ur parents, i can surely tell u no love is as unconditional as partners love…So ,.yes , love do exist..

And about *** its not different from love…*** is another way how u can express ur love to ur partner (when done with ur partner , not every singl person). I feel sorry that ur sexually abused but that doesnt change the trush….i saw people made some unimaginable sacrifices for their partners what do you think about that is it fake I dont think exist and its always does from the bringing of the universe to till now its just about finding that person whom you can love and true love you equally. When you love somebody dont think about anything else just love do your best thats all if your partner all also love you then you can definitely love each other and continue a healthy relationship.

@bloreboy Your crassness only shows your little to nil experience with other social constructs. Comparing polyamory with orgies and calling me a woman might satisfy your insecurities it however doesnt you give you any perspective.

I am in.would love to have some hot fun in a bottom

Finding love – because its not only about sex

Cluelesshubby – Well written post. God never promised that Life will be fair and easy we all have to go thru the journey but we can definitely make it better by being easy on ourselves and having lesser expectation from others.

Its good you find love in your child 👶 over the years he will grow up and find his own path, but the love will remain. Your wife still chose you and is living with you despite you coming out to her whatever be the reason. I guess you need to try hard to make that relationship work coz life can be a torture if there is no love between the partners.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

Beyond masturbation, *** is all about a minimum of two bodies and a basic connection which can get established within 15 minutes, or not even after living a lifetime as legally married partners.

The only true love can exist between a parent and a child, that too as long as the child loves you unconditionally.

My wife to whom I came out as a friend in college, and who married me after getting no other suitors- is definitely not true love.

Her constant physical abuse and verbal threats after I came out a second time in the tenth year or my marriage doesnt resemble love either.

Its only my child, who touches, caresses me and is constantly in my arms that I identify love with.

Were happy to run into each others arms at the daycare, were happy to share a song, recite a story at bedtime.

Glad to hear that you accepted yourself.. And people around you know who actually you are… I agree with the posts I read and its true that people here (not all) are for ***.. And its difficult to find a real one.. Hope you will find a real one.. Best of luck for that..

Finding love – because its not only about sex

@masterbot..yes u r rite it takes a lot of work to make a polyamorous relationship work..i hv seen it personally with my own eyes..but at rajeshwari theater..

Ive met a few shemales from Mumbai. And few from delhi. But apart from having an one night stand, nothing has materialised. Most of these she males are escorting, and theyre not really keen on even conversing beyond the time slot. Ive tried making conversation to build some sort of rapport, but nothing worked. I would love to date a transwoman, or shemale as popularly known. I would also love to date or at least get to know any crossdresser, and know her as a woman, without any regard to their male reality. But alas, nothing has materialised so far. Im envious of the guys whove managed to have such a relationship.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

Also I in my post was not shoving my opinion down anyones throats merely stating that others refrain from making this a morality debate.

Lastly avoid making your arguments personal. Keep to the topic. As for your argument of true grit about making a monogamous relationship work , you clearly have no idea about how much work polyamorous relationship can be.

I agree *** is necessery but there are many things in enjoy..pure love gives more pleasure than ***.

You all guys can njoy *** relationship next 15 to 20 years mostly later you badly need a partner for everyrhing.

Ever convinced anyone for sex by offering favors?

Most of the people only for *** will be 8th wonder of some one continue their relationship without ***.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

If you guys doing any such things like cheating ur partner or broke ur comments . please stop doing that , dont break their believe like glass.. you might think that it wont affect anybody but you are kind of wrong because you dont know how much painful it would be for your partner.. so if you love them a little bit ,care them ,dont wanna hurt them stop doing that..

Finding love – because its not only about sex

After my previous post i got lots of massage from u guys.. for a cng of things,..or lil bit of fresh air kind of stuff.. and also lots of good people massaged me to meet ..but .. sorry for my inability to meet..

Hence me and my partner are still in that relation i cant/dont wanna meet outhers people…. sorry i m rude ..but i dont want to cheat him..

And if my partner still have his profile (he might cng his profile name) and reading my post..i want u to listen me once….

babu….i love u very much..more than i do to anyone else (except ma,baba) and i know u know that also.. but .. I dont know why i cant tolerate that u meet others…when u planned smbody to meet,or talk with others..that what gonna happen between u guys.or how eagerly u waiting for the meet , discuss about what the things u wanna do with him .. etc.. its hurts me… its gives me such pain that I cant express ..but i f see me like that u might feel that. But its like ..some things really really cold got inside my body and i cant feel my body , is like the middle portion inside my chest got i have nothing inside ..

So i request u plz me back inside me…fill me with ur love .and plz try to stop going with others.. .

One thing more if u feel guilty about anything dont worry i promise u if u come to me and tell me now i am only ur..that will be enough for heart is open for u..

There was this guy in Chennai, who i met through PR. We both were looking for relationship. Instead of meeting outside, I invited him to my room, so we can talk casually (I really didnt expect ***). We started chatting casually, then he lied down on my lap, which was weird because it was our first meet and we werent close (obviously!). The he started kissing my hands nd stuff and it ended up as a makeout session (Fine. He turned me on. Alright!). Then we met a couple of times. I wear glasses and people who wear glasses know that whenever they go for eye checkup, they put some liquid in your eyes to test with some things later. This liquid is so bad that you cant even see anything bright at least for a day. Forget about going alone, coming back in a broad day light. So I requested him to accompany me and he came. You may not believe this. Thats literally the first time someone did something for me, though it is trivial. I was a bit happy. Then started the damn thing.

There I was sitting in a chair in the eye hospital, after a very kind nurse dropped some eye liquid in both my eyes and I had to sit down with my eyes closed for some minutes. The demon who accompanied me didnt bother that it was a hospital, people were all around, he started smooching and touching my hips. I was like what the ***? Am i being molested again)? So I opened my eyes to see who the *** was touching me, though I suspected it was him. So this nurse, the reincarnation of Mother Threasa, didnt *** see me getting touched inappropriately but she saw me opening my eyes and her hell broke loose. She marched towards me and stared at me for a good few seconds and without uttering a single word, she poured few more drops down my eyes. I was like Pour the entire damn bottle of drops in my eyes. But dont give me the looks. After a few seconds, the demon started touching my hips. I dont understand why the *** some people get turned on in a hospital, filled with people. I whispered in his ears not to touch me and its making me uncomfortable. That made him upset and I guess he moved away to a different seat, which I didnt know for atleast 2 minutes. During those 2 minutes, I was saying some *** which I dont remember. When I opened my eyes slightly to see why he was not responding, there was this aunty who had some kinda expression in her face, and I am pretty sure there is no word for that expression in any language. Check-up was done, escaped from the hospital who forced me to buy glasses within their premises.

He came to drop me at my place. He came in and shut the door. Then he started making out again. I was not really in a mood, but I was like this guy traveled all the way to accompany me to the hospital and dropped me at my place. So maybe a little makeout is fine for the favour he did. I felt like i owed him something. Then came his rel face. While he was on top of me (still with cloths on), he was kissing me and doing some foreplay so passionately, he said the golden words i WANT TO SEE YOU GETTING *** BY ALL MY FRIENDS. OH! THEY WILL LOVE TO *** YOU. I was like, is this guy for real? and I wanted to punch him in the face. But since I already had a worst experience, getting *** by someone, i started crying. He stopped and he said sorry and stepped out.

We didnt have much in common. And I was thinking that we may have to work it out in a relationship, cant expect someone who has similar mindset. But anyone who says such thing to someone is not worth spending time with. Who knows? He might bring his friends next time and demand something. So I ended things with him, even before it started.

And another beautiful thing is, the same guy messaged me in PR after some months and asked me to select that option I know this person in his profile, saying that it will make his profile good for some reason that I didnt want to know. I blessed him by saying *** off and blocked him.

I dont understand why everything has to be sexual with gays. I am no saint here. I have used and been used by guys for ***. But the thing is, after some time, I learned from my mistake, at least from some, if not all.

You have to look good, stylish, trendy and FAKE to date someone. Gosh, I really should type less.uhhhhhhhh!!!

If you have read my post thus far, then you either found my writing interesting or didnt have better things to do 😛

If you are one of those birds with a wounded wing, then message me. I will try to make you feel alright. I will go down on my knees if i dropped something, i will unzip if i need to take something from my bag, i will get banged if i dont close the door properly 😛

Finding love – because its not only about sex

Would like 2 share my experience with all u great guys out here. This was about 25 years back when I was living in Mumbai. Used 2 go 2 Chowpatty for a massage. I happened 2 meet this really sweet Punjabi maalishwala.

We met a few times and very soon ended up drinking and having *** regularly. My life was like an open book 2 him after some time. We enjoyed each others company and we were in a relationship for almost 4 years, I took care of his needs and he gave me a lot of love. Then he fell upon some hard times due 2 his family problems and started demanding money very often. He later started blackmailing me and even landed up at my office and threatened to tell my colleagues about my orientation. I did not have the kind of money he was demanding. I played tough and he backed off after a few months. I later opened up 2 my mother and she was very supportive. This gave me a lot of courage.What I fail 2 understand is why he behaved in such a cheap fashion when I had done so much for him. I then left the country 2 work in Srilanka and the gulf and stayed abroad for 17 years. I shifted to Pune and never saw him again Thank God.

Have lost my trust completely and indulge only in casual *** once in a while NSA. No more relations as far as I am concerned. Shame as I used 2 be a caring and trusting person. Lost my faith due 2 this experience.

Finding love – because its not only about sex

To start with everyone longs for some love, be it a strt, bi or gay.. being human itself has this longing for love. However *** is the ultimate expression of love. So we cannot separate them and see it.

Firstly when are very alone all you think about is ***, and then comes love, the physical need overrides the emotional needs. So people subscribe for grinder, planet romeo and what not.

Once they are satisfied, they go after looking for love, however due to societal norms take a beating on this, and insecurities of being spotted drives you and you want to evade the concept of relationship and just be satisfied physically and single forever.

This is sad at many levels but its an unfortunate scenario across the globe (yes it is across the globe, including USA/ any other *** nation of the world) today. These are the times we are living in. However, I think acceptance towards gays is increasing very rapidly and things will change eventually. Its just matter of time and patience.

But in the future, IVF or ART methods will take over the burden of reproduction and *** will be set free from straight only *** to open to all.

In the current times, strt *** = babies, so gay ***, bisex *** is frowned upon. But when babies can be tailored genetically and all you need is just a sperm and egg..! Trust me gay *** will be so *** common. This might take another 50 years.. but this is bound to happenn…!!


Finding love – because its not only about sex

Blore.boy its really true . To get in to a relationship you need to have guts . I appreciate it

@mastetbot…now u ll tell us all the scientific reason as to why humans are not suppose to be a one-to-one animal..but we know it dude already…

May be u dont approve of this concept and may be he each his stop imposing ur thots down his throat..and calling it a social garbage.

i feel monogamous relationship is not for faint requires real grit to love someone exclusively..

I have met guys who are having the same opinion as urs and all of them are either married old and closeted…sorry i dont mean any disrespect to u…i believe you must be having ur own reasons for believing on something like this and thats alrite..

However your overly judgemental about open relationships. So refrain from making this a morality debate. A monogamous relationship is not a norm. It is societal garbage that has been fed to you. However I respect that you are not into it. Extend that same respect and courtesy who are into non monogamous relationships.

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